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What are some sexual body language signals and how can men use their body language to attract more women? Good looking women know in a second or two if a man is worth a moment of their time. They are looking for a sexual attractive, confident man.

I feel most women make a decision unconsciously about whether the man is a real man or not. I feel that these unconscious decisions are based on feelings that are based on the mans body language and tone of his voice.

If you are not naturally a men that attracts women like flies then you need to learn these body language skills.

Most men look at what words and pick up lines they say to a women. They focus on techniques that are not really that important. In fact it is far more important in how you say your words and the tone and body language used. I feel you can learn these skills but most men could not be bothered and then complain about a lack of success in dating.

What area the three most important Body Language Signals to create attraction in a woman?

The first is essential and you should use your body language signal with holding her eye contact longer than she does. If a women looks at you, hold her eye contact until she looks away. If you look away first, you are making a huge mistake and you are communicating weakness. You must show in the first contact that you have no fear. If you have fear of holding her eyes then you fail big time.

I suggest to go to a busy shopping centre and hold the eyes of every women that looks at you until they look away. This can be challenging to some men but the rewards of inner growth in your self confidence are great.

Learn to use a very confident posture in your body language. Feel totally self confident and your body language will take on this quality. Push out your chest a little and stand tall. Take up more room with your body language posture. Women want a real man not a Wuss. Learn to use more slow movements and gestures. This takes practice, because when we are nervous, we tend to talk too fast and with a higher tone.

Use cool slow movements and do not make nervous gestures. Look in a James bond movie for tips. Feel totally comfortable in your skin and feel totally powerful. Imagine this if it is not true.

Use a deeper, slower body language voice tone. Learn to speak deeper from our belly and speak slower. Try this and you will find women day your voice is sexy and it turns them on. Try to add more base to your voice. Also pause more as this make you sound more content.

Alan Shearer broke Jackie Milburn's all-time Newcastle scoring record with his 201st goal in a vital 2-0 win over relegation strugglers Portsmouth. The Magpies were playing their first match under temporary manager Glenn Roeder and were 4/5 to win before kick off. An opener from Charles NZogbia and a second from Shearer gave Newcastle their first Premiership win in seven attempts.

In another personal goal scoring feat, Thierry Henry netted his 200th goal for Arsenal as the Gunners overcame their away day fragility to win 2-0 at Birmingham City. Arsene Wengers side had not won away since beating Charlton Athletic on Boxing Day and will have had plenty of support at 11/10 against bottom-three Birmingham. A debut goal for Emmanuel Adebayor and Henrys landmark strike was enough to keep Arsenal in fifth place.

Chelsea extended their lead at the top of the Premiership by 15 points after beating Liverpool 2-0 at Stamford Bridge. The rather generous 10/11 on offer of a home win will have had punters drooling and goals for William Gallas and Hernan Crespo secured the Blues 21st win in 24 league matches this season.

West Bromwich Albion did their relegation battle the power of good with a convincing 2-0 victory over Blackburn Rovers at The Hawthorns. The Baggies have won more home games than any of their rivals in the bottom seven and were an attractive proposition to punters at 19/10. Kevin Campbell marked his 36th birthday with a goal and Jonathan Greening secured the points after 32 minutes.

Meanwhile, Middlesbrough slipped closer to the relegation places when they succumbed 4-0 at home to Aston Villa. A Luke Moore hat-trick and one for former England striker Kevin Phillips secured victory at 21/10 and Middlesbrough, with just one win in their last 11 Premiership matches, can be backed at 9/2 for relegation.

West Ham United condemned Sunderland to their fifth defeat in six league matches with a 2-0 win at Upton Park. At 1/2, the Hammers will have been on many punters accumulators but it took until 81 minutes for Dean Ashton to break the deadlock and repay some of the 7.25 million invested in him.

On Sunday, Jermaine Defoe continued Tottenham's claims for a Champions League spot with a brace against former club Charlton Athletic. Despite never beating thr Addicks at home in the Premiership, Spurs were odds on at 4/5 before kick off. Two Defoe goals sandwiched Jermain Jenas strike while Jerome Thomas goal after 70 minutes was a mere consolation for Charlton.

The "American Male" role is a narrow and well-defined set of behaviors that govern men of all ages. Starting in childhood, homophobic parents and teachers use behavior modification to maneuver male children with rewards and punishments designed to make a man out of a child. Unfortunately, the tough, unfeeling model of the fifties portrayed so successfully by Lee Marvin, Brando , Newman and John Wayne fails miserably in real life scenarios of business, home, women and children.

Given an impossible and painful strait-jacket definition of themselves, men find that they are angry, frustrated and off their game. Yet, there is a huge difference between physical impotency and psychological impotency. Check with your doctor first, but Masters and Johnson used a common at home test that can tell you lots. The simple test of a taping a flaccid penis before sleep and checking in the morning for a break in the tape is a good indicator of which type of impotency a man experiences. You may feel a bit ridiculous but if the tape is broken in your sleep then there is no problem with the equipment. We must then assume the issue is a problem with attitude and thinking negatively. Here are a few steps to consider that may recover the right attitude, your desire and confidence once again.

1. JUST KIDDING
Comments from your buddies can chip away at your self confidence. Male banter is competitive and invigorating for most guys. But the more inadequate your friend feels, the more likely he will take the critical barrage to a meaner level. At some point, the comments may cut deeply, especially about your physical appearance or ability with partners. Get tough on your low ego friends and shut them up. When a friend goes too far they become a destructive enemy and you need to draw the line. This is a good time to pull out the John Wayne stance (possibly the only good time for it.)

2. BACK OFF
Lots of ladies have high needs for attention and low needs for intercourse. You know what that does to you. As you attempt to relieve your mental sexual nagging by nagging her, watch out she may bite! In order to get you to back off, she may say or do something vicious. Ever watch a female dog attack a too amorous male dog when she is not quite ready for him. She goes for the jugular. So might your little love-dove. What ever she says or does is meaningful only in sending a message to you that she is not ready for sex. Getting her ready is a minimum twenty minutes for most, weeks for others. This has nothing to do with loving you in the female mind.

3. SIZE COUNTS ONLY TO YOU
A wise man from Egypt once said chuckling, that only American men try to satisfy a woman with their penis. Other men use all the rest of themselves, he said with a lecherous wink. Women want to feel desired by their man and told they are the most beautiful and sexiest woman alive. Yes, they know you are lying, but still, she needs the fantasy about herself to feel sexy. When you ogle other women, she feels ugly. That will not help us right now. She needs you to respond to her in a caring way, but that could be just brushing her hair or slow dancing in the living room. Ask her how she wants you to show her you care. It will blow your mind how unique that can be.

4. SHE IS TRYING
Women love men who notice the millions of little things they do to be attractive. They do want to talk about their new eyelash curler and feel clever for finding it after six hours at the mall. If you make fun of her or demean her, she will implode emotionally. If she does not feel good about herself, she will not feel like turning you on, either. Without her help, passion is difficult to do all on your own. (FYI. MAC has a good one.)

5. NOT ALWAYS GREAT
Your performance in the bedroom is not always dependable any more than a golf swing, a child's reaction, the outcome of dinner or the rest of your life can be. However, your reaction is completely within your control. Try other pleasure methods, massage, love words, toys etc. and enjoy what you can. Some women never achieve an orgasm but enjoy lovemaking anyway. So can you.

6. WORK ON YOUR WAIST
Your physical shape can predispose you to more frequent problems, which in turn can lead to emotional panic and fear that it will happen again, thus virtually guaranteeing that it happens again. The pressure and stress you put on yourself is a disaster and unnecessary. A lose-lose, right? Check with your doctor about losing the gut because fat increases estrogen and reduces testosterone and starts an avalanche of health problems for men. Have your old resistant doctor test your hormone levels and prescribe some hormone drops if your body needs it.

7. TELL HER
At first you may try to increase stimulation with pornography and risky behavior and that might even work- temporarily. But how far can you go on that road? Skip the diseases and divorce. Ask your partner to be happy when you can perform and supportive, not critical when you can not. Remember, she is overwhelmed with her own feeling of inadequacy. Her worst fear is that you are avoiding her because she is not desirable, never suspecting that it is your own anxiety that is creating distance between the two of you. You are a man, not a machine. You do cry, get scared and fail sometimes. Really, that is so much sexier than a wooden heart.

Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of the new book, Matchlines: A Revolutionary New Way of Looking at Relationships and Making the Right Choices in Love, ISBN 159507158X. She is an authority on relationship and psychological topics, a member of the American Psychological Association and a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, N Magazine, Womens Health and Womens World. Please visit: http://www.askdrmolly.com http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com/ To read articles by Dr. Molly please visit: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Molly_Barrow Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Molly_Barrow

A party theme for a kids birthday parties create a consistent festive feeling placing a fun focus on the event. Party Themes should flow throughout the birthday. Use kids party theme for invitations, party theme thank yous, decorations, party favors (loot bags), music and party supplies (paper products, centerpieces, party hats).

Superheroes are a popular party theme with the boys. American Hero Party Theme is a great patriotic theme which can be done in greens or red, white and blue. A Batman Party Theme can include Batman comics, movies, and toys. Dressing the birthday boy up in the Batman costume will help make him feel extra special. Incredible Hulk Party Theme and Superman Party Theme are more superheroes. Spiderman Party Theme is both a movie and a comic. Plus, the Justice League Party Theme which incorporates a few of the characters together including Batman, Superman, and Spiderman.

Sports is a fun party theme especially for an end of a season little league party. Include a personalized banner with all the team members names as a keepsake for the coach. T-Ball and little league Baseball Party Theme with basebase caps as the party favors. Pee wee football, Super BOwl to a college Football Party Theme with finger foods and the girls dressed as cheerleaders will help create a festive time for all. A car racing Nascar Racing Party Theme is a more unique party theme.

The girls love a Barbie Party Theme with colors of pink and purple. Placing Barbie dolls around the table and having a Barbie doll cake will make the party extra special. For the cat lovers a Hello Kitty Party Theme with colors of red and white. A hip doll is the Bratz doll. Perfect for dress-up parties. A cartoon and a movie would be a Powerpuff Girls Party Theme. Have the cartoon playing in the background. For party favor give out little Powerpuff girl figurines. Lizzie McGuire a character both in the movies and on the TV. For the princess fans a Fairy Princess and Disney Princess Party Themes are a magical idea. Wands make the perfect party favor.

The little girls love Strawberry Shortcake Party Theme, Princess Party Theme, Dora the Explorer Party Theme, Toddlers and little ones enjoy Blues Clues Party Theme a fun interactive TV show. The Rolie Polie Olie Party Theme is also a TV show along with a Wiggles Party Theme. A timeless classic is the Winnie the Pooh Party Theme. The Sesame Street Party Theme is an educational but fun TV show. The Care Bears Party Theme is fun for both the little girls and boys.

Classic books turned movie like a Cat in the Hat Party Theme and Harry Potter Party Theme. For the 15th year old girl a Mis Quince Party Theme and for the 16th year old girl a Sweet 16 Party Theme. Boys love a Bob the Builder Party Theme, Yu Gi Oh Party Theme and Construction Party Theme. Everyone loves the classic Disney Gang Party Theme. Finding Nemo Party Them a clever animated movie. Both a cartoon and a movie Scooby Doo Party Theme. Sponge Bob Party Theme a cartoon that even the parents can sing the song! Kids Party Themes can be TV characters, movie characters, dolls, action figures or create your own!

No matter which party theme is used, remember to follow the theme and colors from start to finish!

Two out of five identity theft victims surveyed by the Identity Theft Assistance Center (ITAC, a nonprofit organization dedicated to fighting identity theft through victim assistance, research and law enforcement partnerships) know how their personal data was stolen. This knowledge provides valuable insight about how identity theft occurs.

When ITAC surveyed 275 identity theft victims who worn the ITAC's open tune over a one-month episode, 160 customers (58%) did not know the supply of their identity theft. Another 115 customers (42%) did know how their information was compromised. These 115 customers attributed their identity theft to the next supplys:

* contacts, relatives, in-home workers - 26 gear, or 22.61% * notebook hacker/virus/phishing - 25 gear, or 21.74% * letters (stolen or fraudulent address change) - 24 gear, or 20.87% * abandoned/stolen wallet, checkbook or believe excess - 15 gear, or 13.04% * shady venture or worker - 12 gear, or 10.43% * records betrayal - 8 gear, or 6.96% * House burglarized - 4 gear, or 3.48% * minute believe - 1 casing, or 0.87%

receiving accurate information about the supplys of identity theft is trying because identity theft - the notch of a fraudulent new account or account invasion - is regularly confworn with other types of fraud, like the unauthorized use of a believe excess.

Nevertheless, it is up to each of us to be on safety against the possibility that our documents, or nastiest yet, our processors, could be compromised. Sometimes it may look like a behind fight, but they are some steps we can take to avert suitable the next victim. Here are some precautions:

* Do not keep your communal wellbeing excess in your wallet.

* If your communal wellbeing number is on your driver's excess, detach it. (In some states it is now banned for a driver's excess to be issued with a communal wellbeing number.)

* When shredding important documents, make surely you use a irritated-cut. "If it is tattered in strips and not irritated-cut, I can put it down right in front of me and put it back together and there you have it," says "John", who uses his skills as a processor safety specialist to shelter you, and is skilled in the conduct of hackers and thieves and can ruin your believe and your life.

* "Don't use wireless for something that you would not want put in a open newspaper. still it's a careful convenience, your information is frankly hovering in mid-air. I could be two blocks away with a high-powered receiver selection up his information."

* The key is safety in deepness or layers: opposing-virus, processor patches, and firewalls, and most importantly, updating them once a week. There are types of shelterion for wireless but they can be hacked in as little as twenty resume.

Because cybercriminals are suitable smarter and more sophisticated in their operations, they are frank threats to your personal safety and privacy. Your money, your processor, your family, and your venture are all at menace.

The Kop in Thailand
I am a Liverpool fan in Thailand. I started to watch football since I was about 12 years old, approximately 1998. I love Liverpool because my daddy. He suggested me to find something I like and interested. He taught me about basic rule of football such as offside, foul, tackle, how to get penalty kick etc. After that, I watch English premiere league every week. My daddy's favourite team is Liverpool, so I decided to cheer this team. Michael Owen is a first my favourite Liverpool's player, he has wonderful talent and incredible speed. He also a great scorer with just 18 years old. I wanted Liverpool to success in their league but they never done it until now. However my daddy informed me that they can did it since the league named "Division 1"

Now, I am 19 years old. Liverpool still cannot go to the first ranking in English Premiere League. Michael Owen went to Real Madrid in Spain about 2-3 years ago. Then, Steven Gerrard had becomes an important player of the middle area in Liverpool team. In comparison, Steven Gerrard is a essential element or main engine of the red machine. He is a person who control the tempo of the game. He has a incredible powerful shot. His shot always help Liverpool in emergency situation. For example, the final game of F.A. Cup last year with Charlton. Liverpool almost defeated in at 3-2 but while injured time his shot lead Liverpool to the penalty and also beat Charlton.

My favourite Liverpool's player changes from Owen to Gerrard. I think Gerrard can changes the game and always help Liverpool. He lead Liverpool to the Champion of UEFA Champion League in the last 2 years and now he is going to beat Chelsea at Stamford Bridge in semi-final round. I hope Liverpool will be the champion again.

In the run-up to Christmas a programme on television reminded me of a story that I had heard before. It was all about an event that started on Christmas Eve in 1914.

World War I had started. British and German troops had been locked in a terrible conflict and were fighting from the trenches. But as Christmas approached the guns fell silent.

The Germans started singing Silent Night and lit lanterns. And shouts of "Merry Christmas!" went across no man's land into the darkness.

The peace continued into Christmas Day. And at dawn troops from both sides cautiously climbed out of the trenches. They met in no man's land where they chatted, shook hands and exchanged small gifts.

It started with the lower ranks first. But the truce quickly spread upwards from privates to sergeants to corporals.

When faced by an enemy who doesn't behave like one, the normal rules of engagement don't apply. For many, this was the first time that they had ever met the enemy.

A joint carol concert was held. And a senior officer joined the scene with two bottles of Fortnum and Mason's rum.

One of the German officers suggested a one-day truce to finish at 8:30 a.m. on Boxing Day. The offer was accepted by the British. And by midday nearly half the British front line was involved in fraternising - an offence of treason that is punishable by a firing squad.

Later in the day a soldier from a Lancashire Regiment produced a football and a game was started. Further along the trenches other troops used anything suitable as a ball in order that they could play football too.

At 8:30 a.m. on Boxing Day, the truce officially comes to an end but no shots were fired in anger that day, or the next.

Some of the Germans went on strike but then realised that their protest was futile. Both sides opened fire but without causing any injury. It was probably a sniper's bullet that brought peace to an end and war was resumed.

This had been the greatest act of spontaneous peace of any war.

One year later and with another million casualties, nothing had moved. And the same again the following year. But changes in the way that war was conducted, including the introduction of gas, stopped any truce reoccurring.

If those troops had known what was to come, would they have gone back to war?

Bachelorette parties are intended to be full of fun and frolic for the bride-to-be and her friends. A wild bachelorette party to revel with her closest friends without any inhibition or guilt is the desire of most brides-to-be.

The conventional bachelorette party involves close friends, relatives, and bridal party members meeting at home, a friend's place, a restaurant, a far away beachfront location, or a resort to have fun. Guests at a bachelorette party generally include intimate pals, co-workers, and acquaintances who have not been invited to the wedding.

Anything related to fun goes well within the definition of a bachelorette party. In wild bachelorette parties, males are objectified and generally ridiculed to gleeful laughter. Male strippers and masseuses, female professional sex seminar speakers, lively concerts in bars, and dancing with strangers to funky music are all part of wild bachelorette parties. Hot items include special t-shirts or hats, erotic novelties, and male blow-up dolls. Buttered Peas, Apple Football, Balloon Sit, Hot Potato, Dirty Pictionary, Honeymoon Mistakes, Truth or Dare, and Pin the Tail on the Male are some of the hilarious games.

Thematic dressing always impresses guests. Scanty costumes and wild painting on party wear are other interesting ideas. Wild bachelorette party gifts include theme outfits, stunning lingerie, super-hot 'come-hither' shoes as well as outrageous wedding night decorations; these gifts also serve to create the ambience of a pre-honeymoon shopping spree. The general idea is to make the bride-to-be shy and blush in front of everyone. A wild bachelorette party often involves consumption of a lot of alcohol; it is, therefore, always advisable to arrange for transportation for the guests.

Spa bachelorette parties are special in that they offer mud baths, massages, manicures, pedicures, exfoliations, yoga lessons, and a health-conscious diet.

A wild bachelorette party is thus an occasion for the bride and her friends to really 'let their hair down.' An outrageously creative party is a truly inspirational way to "jump start" a passion-filled marriage.